Brought to you by the American School Counselor Association
Is your nine-year-old on track? Below are some general development
milestones to help you understand your child's progress over the school
year. Keep in mind that every child is different and may not fit
perfectly into this framework.
Where They Are
Nine is a time of general confusion for kids. Nine-year-olds:
- Want to put some distance between themselves and adults, and may rebel against authority.
- Need to be part of a group.
- Seek independence.
- Possess a high activity level.
- Can express a wide range of emotions and verbalize easily.
- Can empathize.
- Can think independently and critically, but are tied to peer standards.
- Begin to increase their sense of truthfulness.
- Are typically not self-confident.
Where They're Going
School
isn't just academics. Your child's teachers are also helping her grow
socially. At nine-years-old, your child is learning how to make
decisions and set standards. You can help by encouraging your child as
she:
- Begins making decisions.
- Gains a greater sense of responsibility.
- Sets personal standards.
- Develops personal interests and abilities.
- Develops social skills.
- Learns to engage in group decision-making.